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Rejection due to Pornography

Today I would like us to look into the topic of rejection and how it affects an individual as a whole.   Especially when the rejection we feel stem from the affect of pornography on our partners.  Now many times the people would say but it is not about their partner, I disagree for it does fall on our partners too. Many of us do not even know that certain situations may bring about the fear of rejection.   Now although it does not always stem from the specific situation that we find ourselves in this specific moment that the feelings come up, it is important for us to understand how important that we fully grasp where this fear comes from. The primary reason the fear of rejection is prevalent in your life is often due to a lack of self-esteem. You fear rejection because you have a low value and opinion of yourself. As a result, you look to others for cues to help you feel better about yourself. Often low self-esteem stems back to childhood experiences. ...

The Effects of Pornography on the Marriage Bed

The Effects of Pornography on Individuals, Marriage, Family, and Community : By Patrick F. Fagan, Ph.D. Executive Summary Pornography is a visual representation of sexuality which distorts an individual’s concept of the nature of conjugal relations. This, in turn, alters both sexual attitudes and behavior. It is a major threat to marriage, to family, to children and to individual happiness. In undermining marriage it is one of the factors in undermining social stability. Social scientists, clinical psychologists, and biologists have begun to clarify some of the social and psychological effects, and neurologists are beginning to delineate the biological mechanisms through which pornography produces its powerful negative effects. Key Findings on the Effects of Pornography : The Family and Pornography Married men who are involved in pornography feel less satisfied with their conjugal relations and less emotionally attached to their wives. Wives ...